How will the story end?

I found this a couple months ago in Helsinki. "I'M ALONE. I NEED LOVE." I took a photo of it nearly as soon as I saw it, because it made me think very hard. How desperate, how hopeless must this person's life be, that they would feel that it was necessary to reach out to people that they will probably never meet? How destitute must they feel, that they could not even rely on their family or friends? How hurt were they? How lonely, how depressed? In a place where many things were written, some of it not very clean and rather stupid, there is a message from someone begging for love. Everyone needs love. It is a natural desire; we wish to feel that we are loved, that we are needed. Without love, life is pretty much hopeless. We need it in our lives daily. I try to tell my family and friends that I love them as much as I can, because I understand that it is important. I know what it feels like to wonder if one is loved or not. Because of this, I want to be sure that those close to me know that I love them. But let's get back to the subject: how does the story end?

As I said earlier, how hopeless must this person be? How often do you go to complete strangers, or write to people that you will never meet, and tell them that you are alone and need love? You wouldn't do it at all! You would go to a close friend or someone that you trusted and tell them. So, how desperate must this person have been? I think they must have been horribly desperate. How does the story end? This person probably has about 4 options. 1) They trudge on through life, hoping for that day when they will discover love. 2) They sleep around/have a one-night stand with the promise of love, but they'll most likely end up feeling worse than before. 3) They end everything and commit suicide. 4) They find someone who will introduce them to Jesus Christ and they will feel His undying love.

What do you think is the ending? How does this story end? We will probably never know. But think, there are millions of stories that are the same, billions even. People who feel lonely and unloved. People who just want to know that they are important, that they are appreciated, needed, and loved. We all know these people. We may not realize it, but we do. There are people in our lives that feel this way. What are we doing about it? What are we, as followers of Christ, doing to show these people God's love?

I did a post a little bit ago about conditional love versus unconditional love. I'll try to not bring up the same points, but there is something that we need to consider. The Bible speaks often of taking care of others and showing them God's love. This is one of the main points of missionaries: we go out into the world and show God's love. Someone once said that everyone is a missionary whether they realize it or not. You are the missionary to your neighborhood, your workplace, your school... what surrounds your life is your mission field. If we looked at our lives and our surroundings this way, I believe there would be less people who felt lonely and unloved. Why? When one has God's peace, they are not lonely. When one has God's love, they are not unloved, but rather loved with a love that will never die, nor falter in strength. Look at 1 Corinthians 13:1-7. If we don't have God's love within us, or are not showing that love, then we, as Christians are useless. If we are useless, then people will go to hell. People who WE could have helped.We all need to remind ourselves of this continuously.

This photo deserves a grand speech, and I admit that I do not have words enough to convey my thoughts when I look at it.  But my question to you is this: how do you want the story to end?


Have a lovely day!
Candace Nicole

The Lonely God

I wrote this a while back... a few months at least... don't remember the date. Anyway, I read this again today and thought that I should publish it. Hope this can help someone learn something new about God and ourselves.


Yesterday, while I was doing my prayer time, I asked God a few questions. I had a lot on my mind that morning, and I needed to hear that comforting voice. But, as we were talking He said something that I will never forget. He said, "I am a loner, too."

Understand that when He said, "Loner," He was speaking according to my understanding of the word. My understanding is that a loner is one who doesn't have very many friends, except for a few close ones; they are often alone. It may be an incorrect meaning, I'm not sure. But, that is how I understand the word.

As I am a loner, and have always been, and probably will be in some respects, that really hit me. Imagine: the God of the universe, great, mighty, and powerful. And He's lonely. You don't think that it could be possible. But, it is. He, too, feels the loneliness that we feel when we want someone close, when we need to speak to someone. He understands what it feels like to be ignored and unnoticed. He has a few (human) friends with which He is close, but other than that, the rest are half-friends and acquaintances. The former being those who only show up every once in a while for a little chat, the latter being those who only come when they have a problem, only to promptly remove communication again.

Question: if you experience loneliness and a desire to talk with others, and if God created you in His image (as He did), do you think that he wouldn't have those desires as well? That's why we were created: to spend time with him, communicating, talking, loving, and worshipping. That is our purpose on this Earth. Yes, our ministries and our goals are different, but we were still all created with the single purpose of communication with God. Without Him, we are nothing, just a wave in an ocean, and a grain of sand on the beach.